Paradox begins within us. What seems possible and impossible is, ultimately, whatever we choose to decide is. How can we know this? There are billions of people with billions of belief systems and opinions built from the inside out.
This doesn’t make your opinion lesser. If anything it makes it more vital to your well being. How you feel, how you think, how you act: this is your character. This is the puzzle set before you to match. Validate yourself.
Whatever the world may think of us, and though we may come from it, we are not only of it just as our planet is made from dust and rock and elements from elsewhere. We too come from the Universe, where Existence hath seen fit to make us.
So if someone has an issue with your lived experience, you better tell them to take it up with Existence! You already here. They already here. Live and let live. Shift and let shift. We’re not all looking to gain the same perspective, but that doesn’t mean we can’t share in our diverse and differing opinions in a way where all parties may gain from it.
Melanin-having (like 80%), feminice (as in dope, not kind), cis-gender (this word's definition is questionable), queer-thinking (this word's origin is questioned), travel apt (I'm an Earthling first) and fashion forward (I dress myself) SSJW (Sarcastic Social Justice Warrior).
I'm your forebearers attainable unreality. *
* Existing despite other peoples BS circa conception.