Is it stability or is stagnation? Danger, Will Robinson! Worlds have different standards of participation. Not everybody can do what we would like of them. Not because they are unwilling, but because they are actually incapable of it.
How do you know the difference? Existence confirms through synchronicity—otherwise known as appreciation—and denies through degradation—otherwise known as decay. Anything you are desperately trying to hold onto? Anything “a slippery little sucker?” Well, then, you have your answer.
“It is a far, far better thing that I do, than I have ever done; it is a far, far better rest that I go to than I have ever known.” RIP to the old you who feels insecure without absolute control of the future. It’s not a genuine compatibility if one of the parties is lying to each other about who they are or what they care for. That’s also true of any job, btdubs.
Existence made you. It is eternal because its nature is to be present. Being eternal, it is naturally infinite. Being infinite, it is not subject to time. Not being subject to time, it is efficient. Being efficient, it wastes no time. Wasting no time, it makes no mis-takes. Making no mistakes, IT MADE YOUR ASS, mkay?!
You meant to be a you. Being meant to be a you there is room for you. Being room for you there is room for the things that allow you to be your self. Being room for your self there is room for all you need to be well.
Enjoy it already.
Melanin-having (like 80%), feminice (as in dope, not kind), cis-gender (this word's definition is questionable), queer-thinking (this word's origin is questioned), travel apt (I'm an Earthling first) and fashion forward (I dress myself) SSJW (Sarcastic Social Justice Warrior).
I'm your forebearers attainable unreality. *
* Existing despite other peoples BS circa conception.